ElternkompassCalm support, when it storms.
Tantrum, defiance, a hard “No!” at getting dressed? Elternkompass helps you stay calm and find the right words – attachment- and needs-based, without pressure.
What to do about toddler tantrums?
Tantrums, the defiant phase and the big “No!” are part of healthy development in 1- to 6-year-olds. Elternkompass gives you attachment- and needs-based strategies: stay calm, name the feelings, hold boundaries with warmth.
For the moment that counts
No endless feed, no streaks. Just concrete help when everyday life gets loud.
AI Situation Helper
Describe what's happening and get a calm, concrete suggestion for exactly this moment.
Situation playbooks
Why your child reacts this way – and what to say and do, by age (1–2 / 3–4 / 5–6).
Short lessons
Understand what's going on inside your child – in just a few minutes.
Reflection notes
Capture what worked for you. Private – optionally shared with your family.
Family & co-parenting
Share a joint family playbook with your partner or grandparents – up to 3 people.
Your parenting approach
Choose the tone that fits you – from gentle guidance to calm, clear leadership.
How Elternkompass feels
Calm, clear, no fluff – swipe through.
Supportive, not boundless
Attachment- and needs-based. Made to relieve you – not to keep you hooked.
Good to know
What age is Elternkompass for?
For parents of children between 1 and 6 years – right in the middle of the autonomy phase.
Do I need an account?
You can start as a guest. Syncing, the AI Situation Helper and co-parenting require a free sign-up.
What is the “AI Situation Helper”?
You describe a situation with your child and get a calm, orienting response. It does not replace medical or therapeutic advice.
What does the app cost?
Elternkompass is free to use; an optional Pro plan unlocks all content.
Calm through the next wave.
Download Elternkompass and have the right words with you – whenever you need them.
Download on the App Store